In 2019, I had a great life on paper: a stable job, boyfriend, and a basement apartment in DC. But I wanted more.
19.11.2024 - 11:03 / insider.com
This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Ashley Tan, 29, who quit her job at JP Morgan Singapore to travel. It's been edited for length and clarity.
I've always been a rule follower. After graduating from university, I went straight to work and took a role at JP Morgan for the company name. I was so used to following the rules and societal standards that I truly believed climbing the corporate ladder equated to success. However, I was unfulfilled.
In March, I quit my job to travel. I've been exposed to so many new perspectives that I never really got coming from an Asian society. It has given me a huge mindset shift.
I was hired by JP Morgan in December 2022 as an events and marketing analyst. It wasn't really a job I wanted, but because my parents and I think Singapore puts finance companies on a pedestal, I took it.
It wasn't all bad, though. I liked that I was doing something completely different than my previous jobs, most of which were writing-focused. This was front-facing, helping with client events and conferences, which was great for me as a people person.
However, I didn't feel like the company had much tolerance for my out-of-the-box ideas. My team and I were always pitching new ways to make events more exciting for clients, but we were shut down by higher-ups who ruled in favor of tradition and simplicity.
I get it because it's a bank, but I found it frustrating to have to stick to the old ways of doing things and I didn't feel fulfilled because I knew I didn't want to pursue marketing long-term. I felt like I was wasting my life.
I'd been wanting to take time off work to travel for several years, but I was scared because Singapore is a competitive society. Taking a career break is generally looked down upon or seen as a waste of time. Even so, I'd been putting aside a small portion of my income at JP Morgan for travel in case I could make it happen.
About a year into my time at JP Morgan, I reached out to my cousin, who had previously taken a year off of work to travel. Hearing her experience made me feel like I could do it. I knew I'd rather be out exploring and meeting new people than stuck at a job I didn't like for the sake of the company name.
I felt like it was now or never because I was approaching my 30s and knew I'd only gain more responsibilities as I aged. It was scary, but I officially quit JP Morgan in March because I knew I'd regret it if I didn't take the risk. I've been traveling for several months now, using my savings to fund it.
My parents are quite traditional and conservative, so they were shocked when I told them I was unemployed and planning to travel.
Life has been great since I quit. I went to Bali for two weeks to dive and surf, then spent a month
In 2019, I had a great life on paper: a stable job, boyfriend, and a basement apartment in DC. But I wanted more.
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