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09.01.2024 - 17:56 / insider.com
When my oldest daughter was 6 months old, my husband and I flew cross country with her to go on a road trip up the California coast.
It was our first big vacation as a family, and I planned park strolls in San Diego, beach days in Laguna, and hikes along the coast in Big Sur. I was so excited — and then hated every minute of it.
It was a devastating blow for me as a travel editor who, until that moment, revolved my entire year around where to visit and dreamed of traveling the world with kids in tow.
Enough time has passed now that I look back on the trip and fondly remember the good parts, and I can also now see that I was simply a naive first-time parent who made one major mistake: I catered the trip to mine and my husband's interests over my child's.
Now that she's older and we've welcomed another daughter, I've learned a key lesson we live by when we travel: Don't do what we want. Do what the kids will enjoy.
This simple mindset helped me and my husband understand that we needed to stop trying to travel like we did before we had kids while with our kids. We know travel is still worth it, so long as we temper our expectations and keep them low.
That's not to say being on vacation with our kids is a drag. I immediately smile when I recall my daughter zipping down her first waterslide in Hawaii or playing on the beach in Mexico. It just means that having kids changes your life in all kinds of incredible, beautiful ways, and one of them will inevitably be how you travel.
On that trip to Big Sur, my then-baby screamed the entire hike in her carrier. She hated being strapped in and was miserable. So were we. But we wanted to hike, so we did it. It wasn't worth it.
Even now as a toddler, despite living in an area we moved to specifically to hike and be outdoors, we rarely go because she doesn't want to ride in her wagon, stroller, or tricycle, and ironically, would rather I carry her. My aching neck and back feel strongly that I stop doing that.
When I lament this to friends, some inevitably reply, "Just make her go on the hike, that's how they learn!"
That's easy to say when you're not the one hoisting around a wailing child earning concerned glances from passersby.
A much more helpful piece of advice came from one of my husband's best friends. He taught us our golden rule: Don't do what you want, only what the kids want. He's totally right.
When we plan our travel and activities around what our kids will enjoy, we specifically pick hotels with loads of kid-friendly amenities and plan our day around their interests. It's worked every time and we feel relaxed, less stressed, and enjoy our trips much more.
When we went to Oahu, Hawaii, in 2022, still as a family of three, I knew not to force it when my
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