Paul Brunson Helps New Couples Navigate Their First Holiday Together

15.04.2024 - 04:33 / breakingtravelnews.com

A new national study has revealed holidays prove to cause more stress than serenity for some, with over a third of new couples (34%) admitting their first holiday together is one of the biggest tests of a new relationship, with this rising to 60% among new couples aged 18 – 35 years.

The research, conducted by global hotel brand TUI BLUE, revealed the three biggest fears for new couples on holiday include snoring while sleeping (29%), farting in front of a partner (29%) and sharing a bathroom (26%). While some of the biggest turn offs towards a partner include discovering their weird habits (21%), seeing how messy they are (20%) and finding out they facetime their family every day (13%).   

What’s more, the research shows that over a quarter of new couples (27%) don’t go on holiday until they’ve been dating for four-to-six-months, and nearly 40% of new couples wait until they’ve been dating for even longer before jet-setting away.

Across the generations couples aged 18 – 35 years are most likely to put their relationship to the holiday test quickly, with 20% deciding to go on holiday after one – two weeks of dating. Whereas 41% of 56 – 65-year-olds, wait until after six months before they take their first ‘big break’ together.

To help new couples have a harmonious first holiday, TUI BLUE has partnered with Relationship Science Expert Paul Brunson who has identified four typical ‘couples holiday personas’ and devised some tips and resort recommendations for a successful big break:

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Adventurous Spirits: These couples thrive on excitement and physical activities. They are always up for a challenge, enjoy exploring nature, and indulge in thrilling experiences such as kayaking, snorkelling or paddle-boarding.
Creative Epicureans: These couples are passionate about discovering new tastes, learning new skills, and expressing themselves creatively. They enjoy activities that stimulate their senses and creativity, like wine tasting or a cooking class.
Cultural Connoisseurs: These couples have an insatiable curiosity about the world and its diverse cultures. They are lifelong learners and enjoy immersing themselves in new experiences such as guided tours or trying local authentic dishes.
Romantic Relaxers: These couples are about relaxation and spending quality time with their partner in a romantic setting. They prefer laid-back activities and cherish moments of peace and intimacy, such as a romantic sunset dinner or a couples massage.
Paul Brunson, Relationship Science Expert, said: “A first trip away together is an exciting but nerve-wracking step for most new couples. There can be anxiety about spending so much time alone together that it reveals potential annoying or unusual habits to