I ditched the grind working two jobs in the US for a cheap, comfortable life abroad
10.01.2024 - 23:39
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This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Bryn Wright , 29, about her experience leaving the US in 2019 to live abroad with her boyfriend. Wright funds her travels by reselling used books on Amazon . The conversation was edited for length and clarity.
I was waiting tables at two different restaurants in Arizona. One was a morning job, and the other was an evening job — I got no sleep.
I would walk home, nap, and go to my next job — I had no time for myself. I was like, "If I want to be comfortable and OK living on my own, this is what it takes right now, unfortunately."
I think people are tired of feeling overworked, stressed, and unsafe. I thought that maybe there was a better life for me somewhere else.
I didn't really see a future here.
The traditional American dream is that if you work hard, you can build a better life for yourself. And with how things are in the US, that's very hard to do. It's possible, but it's not necessarily attainable for most people.
I found the best way to achieve this was to start a business, put the work in, but then go abroad somewhere where the cost of living was lower and where I could attain my goals.
At first, I just wanted to travel. I wanted to go do fun things and have adventures.
Then, once I actually got abroad, I was like, "Wow, it's so much more than that. I feel so much more comfortable."
When I was in Thailand, I got some cavities filled for $35. This procedure could easily cost $600 or $700 in the US.
My experience with healthcare abroad has been eye-opening. I think people in the US have been interested to hear that, if they go abroad, they can go to the doctor. It's safe. I think people have this idea that it's not safe.
It's been fun to show people: Look at this beautiful doctor's office and it only cost $10 for me to come in here. Or, I had to go to the hospital, which didn't bankrupt me — a revolutionary idea.
It's such a relief. I don't have to struggle; I don't have to worry about any of that stuff. Being abroad is a weight off my shoulders, and every day feels like a new adventure.
The driving force around where we decide to travel is just beautiful sights, adventures we want to take, and affordability.
The most affordable place was probably the beach town of Da Nang, Vietnam.
It has modern, beautiful homes with pools and apartments with stunning beach views. You can rent an apartment there for $300 a month — a beautiful, brand-spanking-new apartment.
It's one of those places where it is more affordable to go out to eat just because there's so much access to fresh, reasonably priced food.
We're going to go out for every meal because Vietnamese food is so good, and you can go to a restaurant and