From Samhain and All Souls’ Day to Día de Muertos and good old All Hallow’s Eve (Halloween), the northern hemisphere’s autumnal shift into the long, dark days of winter produces creepy and colorful celebrations around the globe.
03.10.2023 - 21:13 / insider.com / Monica Humphries
I took a deep breath and stepped into the Italian restaurant Amano in Auckland, New Zealand.
My 21-day solo trip was off to a rocky start. My goal for the day was to explore the city, see its beaches, and visit a few cafes and restaurants.
I thought it was going to take all morning and afternoon. Instead, it took just a few hours.
I spent the rest of my day bouncing between emotions. I was feeling lonely, which turned into frustration when I realized I was wasting my time feeling sorry for myself on a trip to new parts of the world. I felt hyperaware that I was sitting alone at a restaurant when everyone else around me was dining with others. And I looked at the 20 days ahead of me fearing these emotions of loneliness would stick.
As I sat at the bar, I wondered why this solo travel day had gone so poorly. By this point, I had spent dozens of days by myself traveling in both the US and around the globe. Why did today suck?
I landed on the fact that my mindset didn't match my day's itinerary. Since I didn't have enough planned and was grumpy from jet lag, my empty schedule only encouraged me to dwell on the negatives.
For the most part, I'm comfortable being alone. I spend most of my afternoons and evenings with friends, so when the rare solo weekend or night approaches, I celebrate.
I also celebrate solo traveling. It allows me to do what I want when I want. I can wake up for sunrise without anyone complaining about sleeping in; I pick which tourist traps I want to visit and which ones I want to skip; and I can decide how long I spend in a destination and leave at the drop of a hat.
I thrive while traveling by myself. But that doesn't mean I don't have hard days.
To prevent those days from happening, I keep my schedule busy.
Prior to each trip, I create a list of all the museums I have any interest in visiting. I list out all the restaurants I want to dine in, as well as takeout options and fast-food restaurants. I'll map out roadside attractions, local events, tourist traps, and other activities I can fill my days with.
The goal is to create a list so long it's impossible to complete. That way, I'm never bored or sulking in a bad attitude.
This is especially helpful when something goes wrong.
On a recent solo trip to Japan, I missed a train and had to wait another hour for the next one. Thankfully, it wasn't a big deal, but I was frustrated with myself for being late.
Instead of spending an hour being upset about my mistake, I pulled up my list, spotted a nearby bakery with traditional Japanese pastries, and headed that way.
A few years ago, I would've likely let a missed train ruin my day, but by filling my schedule with delightful, flaky foods, I distracted myself from my error. And once the
From Samhain and All Souls’ Day to Día de Muertos and good old All Hallow’s Eve (Halloween), the northern hemisphere’s autumnal shift into the long, dark days of winter produces creepy and colorful celebrations around the globe.
“Muy bien, Panchita,” I whispered to my horse as she picked her way up the rocky path. It was 5:30 a.m., and the stars above us were lighting the way. Our group was hushed, and the only sounds came from our horse's hooves, the gauchos' commands, and reverent gasps as the sun began to rise, revealing the Andes against a pinkening sky. I took a moment to let the experiences of the past weekend wash over me while we rode: Two days prior, I'd learned how to cook by fire with iconic Argentine chef Francis Mallmann. I had, later, taken a sensory wine course taught by one of the first certified sommeliers in Argentina, Mariana Onofri. When we reached the mountain peak, I dismounted my horse and joined my group of fellow travelers circling a roaring fire, as someone handed me a steaming gourd of maté.
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