What Can You Do About Crying Babies on Planes? Our Editors Weigh In
29.09.2023 - 21:35
/ cntraveler.com
/ Charlie Hobbs
/ Mercedes Bleth
/ Matt Ortile
Travel Debates is a series in which our editors weigh in on the most contentious issues that arise in-transit, like whether you should ever switch seats on a plane or if you should check your work email while on vacation.
A recently published article about a European airline that unveiled plans to test an adults-only section on flights between Amsterdam and Curaçao polarized our readers into two opposing camps: those sympathetic to screeching babies (and their struggling parents), and those for whom a scream-free zone separated from the rest of the aircraft couldn't come soon enough. Somewhat startled by the strength of the bye-bye-baby camp, especially on our social media accounts, we decided it was time to unpack this prickly subject.
To get to the bottom of an age where air travel brings out the worst in adults, by the way, just as easily as it does in kids and babies—a dream team of Traveler editors sat down to discuss. Below, executive editor Erin Florio, senior editor Rebecca Misner, visuals editor Pallavi Kumar, global associate director of social Mercedes Bleth, visuals editor Andrea Edelman, associate editor Matt Ortile, and editorial assistant Charlie Hobbs convene.
Mercedes Bleth: I manage the Traveler social comments every single day, so I'm pretty immune, but the comments on our post about the baby-free airline section hurt my feelings. I don't know if I'm just being ultra sensitive, because kids are something that I want in my future... I'm interested to hear from the parents here about whether your feelings have changed around traveling with kids—what they were to begin with and what they are now.
Erin Florio: This won't sound super juicy, but before I had kids, I was the same as you. I was extremely sympathetic to a parent that had a child that was misbehaving. There were always those passengers that you could see getting visibly upset. And I was like, “Who are these assholes that are so mad at this poor woman or man trying to deal with a crying child. Now that I have children, and I've been traveling, I mean, I have a three-year-old and a four-month-old, so it's not like I have years of experience. But I have flown quite a bit with my kids. And the one thing I just want to remind people of, because I see that they don't realize this enough, is that it is so stressful for the parent. If the child is crying, and you as a childless person sitting next to them are getting irritated by that, imagine how it's making the parent feel. They're usually aware that it is extremely annoying for everyone around them. My first piece of advice would be to always consider how stressful it is for the parent before you want to intervene. And then, my second piece of advice is, if you feel like you